I have a very arbitrary definition of beauty that most Westerners don't agree with. (I did grow up in Asia after all)
Nobody I know in rl actually like androgynous boys, so I have no pool of opinions to draw from. Also, I'm mainly in the HP fandom instead of animanga/J-pop fandom, so again I'm mostly alone in my appreciation ^^;;
All Asian women I know (not Asian Americans) do agree on one thing: they don't like facial hair on men. Also, for some reason, most Asian women like fair-skinned men (I don't). They half-jokingly say they want to improve the gene pool for theirr offspring =P